Sometimes life has a funny way of flipping on us. One day all
seems to be going great and then it knocks us down cold with a sucker
punch. If you have lived very long you know this to be true. Life is
full of ups and downs or hills and valleys as some would say. If your
life is anything like mine those hills and valleys seem to be
happening in the same moment. I can't figure out if I going up or if
I'm on my way down. Happiness in one aspect and sadness in another.
And Sadness has a way of saying, "What do you have to be happy
about anyway? Can't you see you're struggling here! You have no space
for Happy in your life."
The thing is whether climbing up the side of a mountain slope or
going down it is an equally difficult journey. Our legs ache and our
lungs scream for air on the way up while we cringe at the thought
that one miss step on a steep downward slope could send us tumbling
all the way to the bottom. I'm not sure I really get the whole hiking
thing but I do know that I appreciate the level path more than the
rugged climb. Even if you are not a hiker, you can appreciate the
picture of the trail opening onto a beautiful, lush meadow. Your
breathing slows and your comfort level rises and you begin to think,
"This was totally worth it!"
On my recent trek through Ecclesiastes I had to pause and think.
In the midst of woe and meaningless whining about life, its struggles
and its distractions we find Solomon encouraging us to find
satisfaction in the simple things. He takes it down to the basic
level each of us live at. Eat, drink and work. That's it. We can be
content with what we have or we can strive, climb and worry our lives
away to which Solomon would point out is
"Meaningless."
Solomon also speaks to the things in
life that come to us through no action on our part-the illness, the
accident, the down sizing, the prodigal child- he tells us, "When
times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider this: God
has made the one as well as the other
." And then he says,"
Remember that nothing is certain in this life. I have seen everything
in this meaningless life, including the death of good young people
and the long life of wicked people." [7:14-14
NLT]
Solomon is pointing out there is no checklist or formula to living
the perfect life.
"Nothing is certain." No matter
who we are, how closely we follow the Lord, or how much faith we
possess S*** Happens. I'm sorry if I am offensive but lets be
realistic. When life gets hard don't you think, "This STINKS!"?
Woe is universal. It strikes us all. It doesn't matter if we are
righteous or wicked we will meet up with it eventually. There is no
escape. But in the passage from Ecclesiastes it says,
"...consider
this: God has made the one as well as the other." And
that's when we think,"Really, Lord. I'm doing the best I can and
now this! There is no hope here." But when the disappointment
subsides and we can begin to see clearly again that's when we can
actually can start to realize that God is indeed in those dark days
as well working to bring about things that could happen any other
way. Blessings in disguise some would say.
One 'undercover' blessing came to me at very critical time in my
life as they always do. My dad was dying. His body was ravaged with
cancer brought on by his lifestyle choices. No amount of prayer was
going to turn the tide on this one. Nor did I even think God was
working here. After all, Dad had indicated the church would fall down
if he ever entered it. So to protect the other parishioners he stayed
clear of the building on Sundays. It seemed as though he had turned
his back on God. The real truth is he felt unworthy but a few months
before my dad's death came a new revelation.
On one of my last visits my dad was calling each of us aside and
presenting us with a gift of a personal item he held dear throughout
his life. His hunting knife, his hat, his rifle, his watch went to
various siblings. They were just things he knew we would like or he
just wanted us to have to remember him by. When he got to me he said,
"Sis, I don't have anything in my box for you." I shrugged
it off with, "That's OK, Dad," knowing his love was really
enough. But then he went on to say he wanted me to know he had made
his peace with God and he had finally trusted him with his life.
Oh, My God! [reverently, of course] You are truly a God of
miracles! I cannot tell you the pleasure I found in hearing my dad's
profession of faith. A long season of prayer was answered and a
daughter's broken heart restored. And that's not all. When it came
time for his passing God blessed me again by allowing me to be with
Dad when he saw the light of heaven. He pointed it out to me but my
eyes that were still anchored to this earth could not see it. He went
on his way to an eternal life with Jesus. A beautiful thing, indeed.
You know, I think I beg to differ with our wise man, Solomon, on
the point that nothing is certain in life. I believe you can know for
certain what the future holds. For instance, I know for certain that
God is with me whether I am in good times or bad.
[Deuteronomy
31:6] I know that because of his presence I will survive
the bad times.
[Psalm 16] But
not only that. I will be blessed through them. There will be joy in
them. Perhaps not about what I wanted or expected but joy all the
same. I will look back and realize it was not a meaningless exercise
but a time when God's power and glory as well as his love and
compassion were on display in my life.
[Romans 8:18,
28] And I have no doubt
God will continue involve himself all aspects, good and bad, of my
life. That is something I can count on. His ways are certain.
At the end of this particular portion of Scripture in Ecclesiastes
Solomon states,
"It is good to grasp the one and not let go
of the other. The man who fears God will avoid all [extremes]."
I believe he is talking about grasping the good and the bad that
comes to our lives. Hold them in your heart. Look for God and his
wisdom in each situation. Know that God is at work bringing not just
a good but the
best outcome. This is what brings
that sense of ease even in the midst of turmoil. When we do this it
is like that experience we talked about in the beginning, the
stepping onto that peaceful meadow. Trusting that God is in control
of all situations allows us to stand in awe of the beauty he is
creating in and around us. When we do we will surely find ourselves
breathing out, "Now, this is totally worth it."
He has made everything beautiful in its time.
Ecclesiastes 3:11